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Yesit's me wrote:sweet song
Maggy- Totally loving George Clooney
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Is that remark to me or Atalante re her innuendo?it's me wrote:again?
If for me, I was stressing a point some may have missed by re-quoting G.
Anyway, back to topic: "Control."
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the black lil book?
he wrote all our sins
on it
he wrote all our sins
on it
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he control us fans
and all b we say
and all b we say
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Really?!?
And you would know because...?
And you would know because...?
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Yes really, I saw this on a Belgian tv program called Storywood. I laughed myself silly ! LINKtheminis wrote:Ocean I think you have made your point on this thread about publicity girlfriends, yet again. Lets get back on topic. Atalante really?
The topic according to first page is Control, let's move on shall we.
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This "REAL" propaganda feels more about safeguarding a "hidden life"... which in all sadness / unfairness, can be obliterating to a whole lot of REAL lives... Na? Shattering their lives with their waiting... So it might not be a humane thing to ever support something like this... ideallyOcean wrote:
But as his quote states, his REAL personal life is private.
Also from the woman's point of view... in my humble understanding, I doubt any REAL woman will ever be able to see another woman being played in-order to safe-guard her own life / interests (?????) ... NO REAL woman in any culture will allow that... Unless, she is UN-REAL...
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totally totally right
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Old thread but interesting.
Think I may be able to help a little here...as all the people in my life have been extremely controlling.
How do you deal with this.........
Its all about learning or be willing to learn...some examples.
My father came last year to live with me...he is the most controlling man in the world...even down to the way you speak.
How did I deal with this..now I am older and what happened.
He likes to run his day a certain way...do things in his time...go out according to weather all different things.
Sometimes he would just go out or be ready to go out and not even tell me his plans.
So I had to say to him in the end..that I have certain things in my day that had to be done at a certain time and this cannot be changed...therefore I would appreciate if he would let me know.
Then...he agreed and would tell me one hour or 10 minutes before...so I had to be clearer...that if he had made his plans or decisions for the day...if he could tell me asap.
So when dealing with a controlling person..you just have to remain calm and patient...and it took some time as you see many tries...before he finally got it.
So in answer to the original post....are you prepared to take a little time and work on these small things...to create good harmony in a family life.
Or would you prefer to be lonely and by yourself..doing what you want to do when you want to?
Dad could still go out...just be a little considerate of others....that's all it takes.
This is just an example but you can apply this to anyone who is controlling.
Also as you age...you become more vunerble to people and he realized its nice to have someone who is there and has your best interests at heart...who would go in guns blazing for you fighting...and that what people do who are in a good couple. You can pay people but its just a job or money at the end of the day....you are sick...you don't know...can't tell the difference.
If you ever watch The Real Housewives of this or that...the male partners are extremely high profile...with there work and would probably be fairly controlling at a guess...but when you see the show...they have given up part of control...example...the running of the family home or parts of there business to there partner so they can devote more time to there job. Something for something.
Controlling people are actually frightened that's why they need control....IMO
Getting back to why were here...if I had my Loving arms around GC...He would be giving up all control...lol..
Think I may be able to help a little here...as all the people in my life have been extremely controlling.
How do you deal with this.........
Its all about learning or be willing to learn...some examples.
My father came last year to live with me...he is the most controlling man in the world...even down to the way you speak.
How did I deal with this..now I am older and what happened.
He likes to run his day a certain way...do things in his time...go out according to weather all different things.
Sometimes he would just go out or be ready to go out and not even tell me his plans.
So I had to say to him in the end..that I have certain things in my day that had to be done at a certain time and this cannot be changed...therefore I would appreciate if he would let me know.
Then...he agreed and would tell me one hour or 10 minutes before...so I had to be clearer...that if he had made his plans or decisions for the day...if he could tell me asap.
So when dealing with a controlling person..you just have to remain calm and patient...and it took some time as you see many tries...before he finally got it.
So in answer to the original post....are you prepared to take a little time and work on these small things...to create good harmony in a family life.
Or would you prefer to be lonely and by yourself..doing what you want to do when you want to?
Dad could still go out...just be a little considerate of others....that's all it takes.
This is just an example but you can apply this to anyone who is controlling.
Also as you age...you become more vunerble to people and he realized its nice to have someone who is there and has your best interests at heart...who would go in guns blazing for you fighting...and that what people do who are in a good couple. You can pay people but its just a job or money at the end of the day....you are sick...you don't know...can't tell the difference.
If you ever watch The Real Housewives of this or that...the male partners are extremely high profile...with there work and would probably be fairly controlling at a guess...but when you see the show...they have given up part of control...example...the running of the family home or parts of there business to there partner so they can devote more time to there job. Something for something.
Controlling people are actually frightened that's why they need control....IMO
Getting back to why were here...if I had my Loving arms around GC...He would be giving up all control...lol..
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I didn't really understand your daddy thing
but I am sure it needs a lot of patience to deal with controlling ppl
my mum is of that kind
I PERFECTLY KNOW
but I am sure it needs a lot of patience to deal with controlling ppl
my mum is of that kind
I PERFECTLY KNOW
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It was a small example of how to deal with someone who is controlling.
Basically..he is a man who has done everything he wants to do his whole life when he wanted to...he came to live with me because of his ill health and the above adjustments...had to be made on both sides.
Even when he was with my mum...he lived like a single man...that's why my mum left.
Its about learning from both sides.
Basically..he is a man who has done everything he wants to do his whole life when he wanted to...he came to live with me because of his ill health and the above adjustments...had to be made on both sides.
Even when he was with my mum...he lived like a single man...that's why my mum left.
Its about learning from both sides.
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hmm
ok
but you not his spouse
so something he can do is not painful to you as it was for her
ok
but you not his spouse
so something he can do is not painful to you as it was for her
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No but I was heavily controlled as a child. I have moved on from this.
The point is you were saying.....GC is controlled a lot in his life...and you mentioned if he had a partner.
Not sure what you ment...I took it as..would he as a single man GC be able to adjust.
So I shared an example on how to work through issues with controlling people and how I got around it with my controlling dad.
In GC's case don't forget we add to this mix a lot of great love and very good sex...it tends to make a lot of things sweet and easier to take! IMO
The point is you were saying.....GC is controlled a lot in his life...and you mentioned if he had a partner.
Not sure what you ment...I took it as..would he as a single man GC be able to adjust.
So I shared an example on how to work through issues with controlling people and how I got around it with my controlling dad.
In GC's case don't forget we add to this mix a lot of great love and very good sex...it tends to make a lot of things sweet and easier to take! IMO
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lol!
but I was talking about your father
not about G
I dunno about him
but I was talking about your father
not about G
I dunno about him
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She choose him and the next man was even more controlling she likes this type of guy to be truthful she was fairly lazy and likes a man to do all the work.
Getting back to orginal question..life moves on...and
I have only been on here a week or so..but I have seen how busy he GC has been...if changed direction..lol
and then put as much passion into his personal life..he would be just as successful.
The secret to long term relationships is..get to know the person..likes and dislikes..and try to blend in..it does get easier after awhile and frees you up to still steam ahead professionally at a later time!
Think of it like a movie script...you can take it where ever you want it to go!
Getting back to orginal question..life moves on...and
I have only been on here a week or so..but I have seen how busy he GC has been...if changed direction..lol
and then put as much passion into his personal life..he would be just as successful.
The secret to long term relationships is..get to know the person..likes and dislikes..and try to blend in..it does get easier after awhile and frees you up to still steam ahead professionally at a later time!
Think of it like a movie script...you can take it where ever you want it to go!
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NewFanForever wrote:She choose him and the next man was even more controlling she likes this type of guy to be truthful she was fairly lazy and likes a man to do all the work.
Getting back to orginal question..life moves on...and
I have only been on here a week or so..but I have seen how busy he GC has been...if changed direction..lol
and then put as much passion into his personal life..he would be just as successful.
The secret to long term relationships is..get to know the person..likes and dislikes..and try to blend in..it does get easier after awhile and frees you up to still steam ahead professionally at a later time!
Think of it like a movie script...you can take it where ever you want it to go!
Thank you NFF ! What amazing advice, if I ever get the chance to try it out, I will....
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Too be truthful I know a number of guys in this age group...and I do know and understand there fears.
Its one of the biggest steps you can ever take..and most dangerous.
What I know is if GC has said previously he is no good a marriage...then he will be until he changes his mindset. Or has coaching or seeks solid advice.
Like a friend of mine said he wouldn't be a good father and he is not.
When a man speaks i have learn't to listen!
Its one of the biggest steps you can ever take..and most dangerous.
What I know is if GC has said previously he is no good a marriage...then he will be until he changes his mindset. Or has coaching or seeks solid advice.
Like a friend of mine said he wouldn't be a good father and he is not.
When a man speaks i have learn't to listen!
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funny the movie script idea !!!
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What I mean is...
Boy meets Girl...Boy and girl get married...B and G have Baby..Boy now jerks off to porn each night...Girl goes to bed eats chocolate..lol..
It doesn't have to be that way...don't follow..the I am fifty I need to retire now..i'm old etc...
About ten years ago my mom said you will only get from life what you make out of or want! Wish she had said this 20 years ago...but
Since then I have been catching up the last 10 years on all these different things I have wanted.
So what I am saying is...don't follow the patterns people say happens or think should happen at a certain age or time.
Otherwise your enjoyment of life will end pretty early!
Boy meets Girl...Boy and girl get married...B and G have Baby..Boy now jerks off to porn each night...Girl goes to bed eats chocolate..lol..
It doesn't have to be that way...don't follow..the I am fifty I need to retire now..i'm old etc...
About ten years ago my mom said you will only get from life what you make out of or want! Wish she had said this 20 years ago...but
Since then I have been catching up the last 10 years on all these different things I have wanted.
So what I am saying is...don't follow the patterns people say happens or think should happen at a certain age or time.
Otherwise your enjoyment of life will end pretty early!
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NewFanForever wrote:What I mean is...
Boy meets Girl...Boy and girl get married...B and G have Baby..Boy now jerks off to porn each night...Girl goes to bed eats chocolate..lol..
It doesn't have to be that way...don't follow..the I am fifty I need to retire now..i'm old etc...
About ten years ago my mom said you will only get from life what you make out of or want! Wish she had said this 20 years ago...but
Since then I have been catching up the last 10 years on all these different things I have wanted.
So what I am saying is...don't follow the patterns people say happens or think should happen at a certain age or time.
Otherwise your enjoyment of life will end pretty early!
Oh, be careful, nothing in life is THAT easy...it's cold on the outside, not the "norm" is not a comfortable place to be. It's not bad, just no cakewalk.....
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Warren Beatty was also a confirmed bachelor, 56 years old but he has adapted to married life. George can adapt yes, but I think his problem is another .
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@****** - And just what would that be?
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