Gold Diggers - Good or Bad? What do you think?

mosaic wrote:

     theminis wrote:Nope sorry I wouldn't exclusively choose rich, I'd choose capable above those choices, so if I stop sitting on the fence for a minute here, well I would not pick rich.  

Katiedot wrote: Yep, but you don't have to choose between those qualities. He can be capable AND rich. Or capable AND poor.

I would want to know the *why*...

It's not relevant. The question says that the guy is perfect in every way. The only choice you would make is whether he's perfect and rich or perfect and poor.

playfuldeb wrote:Interesting article, and the comments are too.

But turn it around. I have dated guys who once they secured the relationship, used me to pay their debts, support them once they moved in, and so on. And I am not wealthy by any means. But I have a way to survive, and it attracts the wrong men. So, I am just not dating right now till I figure out my "glitch" !!
But there are men who think just like the girl in this article.

Agree. There are men who think like that.
Good to take a break and figure out your glitch.
I´ve been doing it for quite some time now
And finally I know exactly what I want and need.
Sailor or better yet fisherman
good looks and ability to write must (doesn´t matter what language, I can translate or learn a new one)
so he can write longing love letters, messages etc while away (only to me hopefully)
and he will be away
home for few weeks off for 6 months and so on
Perfect!

Boy I ´m glad I got this figured out. Fish me luck with my wisherman

Uups, I know this is a bit early, but
can I change Carla97 to Fisherman´s Wife?  

Or Mrs. Cook?
 

Oh, you already have someone particular in mind?
Cook sounds like a good last name, starting with C, so I´m CC, kind of like BB.

But I was looking
Genova, La Spezia, still googling harbours and ports as to where to go next.

I´m not gold digger - maybe little fish digger...

 

I'm only digging for love...

  

And with a more than you rich the prenup is really good
We in Italy have a legal rule that keep separation from each possession
It's the same

Thanks for the prenup reminder. I´ll have my fisherman with lawyers in a round table. We´ll sign romantic agreement between us. It spells out how exactly fish will be distributed in the (hopefully not obvious)case of a divorce.

There is a price you pay for love....

Garth Brooks had a song that went...
Somethings are better left to chance.....
I could have missed the pain, but then I would have had to miss the dance'

Like everything in life, you take a chance. " If it's for you it won't go past you"

So maybe Goldiggers are meant to be, you just have to spot them and then either decide to love them OR hate them.
If you decide "oh to hell I'm gonna love this person"  because you know what you are getting into then you protect, protect, protect.

Tip of the day...
My Bank Managers is a Golddigger, I hate him....but at least I know it..he's a smarm pot....when I am called into the Bank I play Kanya "Golddigger" really loud so that I have attitude (no figures, but bags of attitude).....it works for me.....

I'm going to post Garth on music thread.........xxx

Sounds fishy to me Carla !

Does it?
This happened today.

I was little bored here in a sunchair, nothing much happening workwise. I really like the idea of fisherman. Then I remembered the sailor I know with own boat. I didn´t have his number on my phone, but thought about the year when I last saw him and I had it in that year´s calendar.

I sent him SMS to ask where he was and suggestions for seaside destinations without my name on it. He replied Ciao, in Sardinia, coming here? I asked, any fishermen there? He replied he can fish, he is in his boat, and the name is "two xxx" xxx was your sign in chinese horoscope? He was right it is my sign. Then he texted that I should let him know as soon as possible when I am coming, so he can send his wife home before. Then he texted the best ways to get there. And I texted that I´m not coming, he misunderstood me, he should delete our conversation. He texted back, no need to he has saved my number as work related and not under my name but as well-known candy factory.

Good then, Ciao!

This is what you get when you text a man. Never ever do that!

Lol Lol Lol....oh Carla.....Lol

I was making a joke before above .

So funny... was thinking... Fisherman + fish-digging + boat = Mrs. Fisherman ... all in India  

... ... WHY do some men WANT "gold-diggers" anyways??  ... Don't so many GO AFTER "gold-diggers"?? ... Isn't "gold-digger" status-symbol today??